Thursday, January 23, 2014

Things I learned about George Washington

I finished reading this book: His Excellency: George Washington (Ellis, Joseph J.)

Its one of the first books I downloaded onto my kindle I got for Christmas. yay!
One thing I like about the kindle is that it can keep track of my highlights. These are interesting excerpts that I took from the book. Mostly things I found very interesting about George Washington that I had not known before (didn't really study US History in Mexico, and college courses never go into much detail).

17 things I learned about George Washington:
1. He never had kids of his own. He became guardian to Martha's two kids from her previous marriage.

2. He was more opposed to the economic dependance that American colonist had on England that the political dependance. The economic side affected him more as the owner of several plantations.

3. Loc 1513-1514: "(in one of the plans he envisioned a night attack across the ice with advanced units wearing ice skates) His staff rejected each proposal..."

4.After he became President "criticism of Washington could only take the from of whispers, since his transcendent status as "His Excellency" levitated above all political squabbles, making direct criticism almost sacrilegious". Loc 1875-1877.

5. John Marshall who is known as for his roles on the supreme court "wrote the definitive Washington  biography" of his time. Loc 2030-2031. Even though "there is no record that Washington noticed him, Marshall certainly noticed Washington" Loc 2029.

6. During the Revolutionary War "the Iroquois Confederation or Six Nations had made the wholly sensible but spectacularity misguided decision that america was destined to lose the war" Loc 2167-2168.

7. "The Articles of Confederation, officially adopted in 1781, accurately embodied the same one-vote principles and did not create, or intend to create, a unified American nation but rather a confederation of sovereign states" Loc 2221-2222

8. After the war was won Washington "refused to believe reports from London and Paris that British negotiators tacitly recognized that they had lost their American empire. Even with the capture of Cornwallis's army, he pointed out, the British still possessed a formidable force on the American continent, considerable larger than the Continental army". Loc 2405-2408. He coundnt believe they were done with the war, that the British were accepting defeat.

9. "When word of Washington's response leaked out" (that he would be a one term president) "to the world, no less an expert on the subject than George III was heard to say that, if Washington resisted the monarchial mantle and retired, as he always said he would, he would be 'the greatest man in the world'"
Loc 2439-2441

10. "Interestingly, Washington seldom used the term "republic" to describe the emerging nation that he, more than anyone else, had helped to create. His preferred term was "empire", which had imperial and monarchical implications that were, in fact, compatible with Napoleonic aspirations" Loc 2508-2510.

11. A description of his final address of his first term "No one has ever seen Washington wear spectacles before on public occasions. He looks out to his assembled officers while adjusting the new glasses and says: "Gentlemen, you will permit me to put on my spectacles, for i have not only grown gray, but almost blind in the service of my country" Several officers began to sob. The speech itself is anti-climactic. All through of a military coup die at that moment"Lc 2520-2523.

12. When talking about his lands "he decided to tour his western holdings and came upon several families who had settled on plots he owned in western Pennsylvania. One can only imagine the disappointment the settles felt in learning that the land they had been cultivating as their own for many years belonged to an absentee owner, and that the owner was none other than George Washington. When they questioned the legality of his title, Washington hired a lawyer to have them evicted if they refused to leave or pay him rent as tenants. "I view the defendants as willful and obstinate Sinners", he explained, "persevering after timely and repeated admonition, in a design to injure me". Loc 2742-2747

13. As he was older, he would write to people "who owed him money, saying that he could not accept slaves as payment: "I never mean (unless some particular circumstances should compel me to it) to possess another slave by purchase; it being among my first wishes to see some plan adopted, by the legislature by which slavery in this Country may be abolished by slow, sure and imperceptible degrees"  Loc 2858-2860.

14. "...he did honor his pledge to visit all the states in the union. In the fall of 1789 he launched a month -long tour of New England that carried him through sixty towns and hamlets. Everywhere he went the residents turned out in droves to glimpse America's greatest hero parading past. And everywhere he went New Englanders became Americans, at least for the duration of his visit" Loc 3329-2295.

15. "the belief that Washington was living out his retirement on the edge of bankruptcy, a view that has seeped into some of the history books, is dead wrong. In fact, Washington was one of the richest men in America. Second, the core of his wealth bad been acquired early in his life as a result of his prominent role in the French and Indian War". Loc 4535-4538

16. At the end of his life "Washington enjoyed the best care that medical science of that time could provide. Unfortunately, everything the doctors did made matters worse. They bled him four times, extracted more than five pints of his blood. They blistered him around the neck. They administered several strong laxatives- all misguided attempts to purge his body of infection. If antibiotics had been available then, Washington would almost surely have survived to keep his promised to Mrs. Powel. As it was, the infection that had invaded his throat was untreatable and fatal. Loc 4642-4646.

17. As he was dying he said: "I am just going. Have me decently buried, and do not let my body be put into the Vault in less than two days after I am dead... Do you understand me?" Washington believed that several apparently dead people, perhaps including Jesus, had really been buried alive, a fate he wished to avoid. His statement also calls attention to a missing presence at the deathbed scene: there were no ministers in the room, no prayers uttered, no Christian rituals offering the solace of everlasting life" Loc 4653-4657


In the works

I have three blog posts that I have started, and am excited to share, but have not found the time/inspiration to finish them.
I hope that by the next time anyone of you checks back, I will have something finished.


I have a small problem with that, finishing things.
Its hard!
I have a pile of half knit or sewn things that have not been finished.
I have a half done jewelry board waiting in the kitchen.
A half cleaned stove top, I got distracted writing this.

So here goes! today I will finish some things and will try not to start any new ones in the process.

Edited: Finished a post! yay! Now to see what else I can finish.



Monday, January 6, 2014

Spending in 2013

Today I went through my bank statements for the 2013 calendar year. I added up all the money that exited my bank account in 2013 and my total spent for the year is: $35,599.85

Now in the process I made categories and added up my totals in them. I found it interesting how much I can actually spend in a year and not notice. On a weekly and even monthly basis (monthly is how I budget) it doesn't seem like much, but when you add a whole year up, man! I think Ill be changing some habits that should save us some money.

Note: Mike and I got married last January, and so the total reflects the cost of living for the two of us. Though it is incomplete, because we didn't add Mike to my bank account until we moved to Virginia. Before then he had his own account and would also pay for things from there. I have no idea how much he spent in a year from his account. I asked him how much he thought he may have spent, and he really had no idea. So Im gonna say that since bills and food came from my bank account he only spent like 4,000 from January to August.

Why did I take a whole day and add all these numbers? Am I crazy taking hours to add up amounts and create categories?
The reason why I like to do a whole year is, not only see where our money is actually going, but to better make decisions on how to spend it. Especially as a newly married couple.

One example is the car, when we moved to Virginia, it was an easy thing to see that we wouldn't need two cars, so we sold one. But now that I know how much we spent for the car this year, we can decide if its worth it to keep our one car, or if we might be better off with a car rental or car share program since we don't drive much anymore.
So in the auto and transport category we spent:
     Gas $2016.21
     *Other car $882.69
     Parking $120
     Metro $239
(*other includes maintenance, insurance, etc)

Totaling: $3,257.90. Now, we may choose to look into a car sharing program, approximate how often we would use it and see if it might save us money. Now depending on what we figure out, we may choose to sell the car.
AND, I can make a realistic budged for auto and transport for 2014, and then make my monthly budgets a very real goal.

Food.
We eat!
A lot!
I didn't realize this until I added up all the numbers.
In grocery stores (Walmart, Giant, Walgreens, and Other) we spent a total of $2972.68.
I know that we don't just by groceries at Walmart, and that Walgreens is a pharmacy. But we mostly buy groceries at Walmart, and really if we do go to Walgreens its for last minute needed items or snacks. This category also includes, laundry, personal care, house cleaning items, etc.

Now, in eating out. Welp! our total for the year is $2289.01.
We ate at over 60 restaurants. We spent the most at Chick-Fil-A with $333 for the year, Qdoba came in at second place with a total of $256 and Chipotle in third only $20 behind second place.

Shopping!
Clothes stores total was $800. I really don't know if we should have more and better clothes to show for this amount. But we were very much in need of some new clothes that we got for Christmas this year. Such a blessing!
Ikea $177
Home Depot and Lowes came in at $1320, which is high but makes sense, we did do some work on the house in Joplin and finished paying off the Lowes credit card that still had some on it from the actual house renovations.
Craft surprisingly at only $225. So all that creative energy came out, and Im surprised it didn't cost more.
There is always that "other" category, this time at $79

Entertainment.
A pretty wide definition of entertainment.
Movies came it at $445. A bit of a surprise, and I included the popcorn in this figure.
Amazon and Books, this includes Mike's law books for the Fall semester, not so much entertainment, but it sort off fits in this category with a total of $1,113
Apple, I got my computer in May, and I love it, really, I wouldn't be writing this blog without it. Total cost of my new one, plus some repairs to Mikes computer brings us to $1,434
Vacation and Sporting goods. This is the actual category with all the fun things, including the lift tickets for our Colorado Ski Trip, expenses from our eloping, bike accessories, all years hotels, and our season pass for paddle boarding for the 2014 season came to a total of $2,212.

Our biggest category, coming in at $11,755 is our Home and Utilities. This is the one category that is due to grow the most in 2014.
Gas- $405
Water- $682
Electricity- $660
Home Insurance- $477
These are all the expenses from the house in Joplin, pretty inexpensive when it comes down to it.
The big ticket item is RENT that we are now paying here in Virginia coming in at $8,250 for 5 months.
The most upsetting amount, is the Internet/Phone. For the year we spent $1277, don't really know how that happened, and I kind of feel like it should be considerable less, but the numbers don't lie.

My last category, which could have been the bank breaker, is what I put under "health". A category to keep track of for sure!
My insurance for the year came out to $1308. Its not the best coverage, considered more of a catastrophic plan than anything else. Which is a good thing, if I remember correctly, by bills from just the chopper ride off the mountain in Alaska were over $18,000. In the end, we have paid for my broken ankle at about $3000 and counting (Im still making payments on the biggest bill). Ill keep some insurance thank you very much, you never know when Ill decide to jump off something else.
I also am including Running in this category, I do spend money on it, mostly in good shoes and races, this last year it totaled $346.64. This is a category I'm planning on spending more in this 2014 year! Starting with the Nation's Triathlon in September, (by starting I mean paying for the enrollment, I hope I can do a 5k or 10k this spring)

And last but not least. The *other* category. This includes randoms like the US postal service, charity, random school expenses, and such. It totals $2035.69. I was surprised at what few things actually ended up in the *other* category.

When you round up, it comes to $40,000 for the two of us. Which really I think is not bad for a year in which we:
-Got Married
-Moved Mike from Houston to Joplin
-Ski Trip to Colorado
- Half Marathon in Joplin
- Alaska trip (mostly post trip medical bills)
- Moved to the Washington DC area
- Started Law School
and had many more adventures in-between.


In my next post, I will be making my budget for 2014.

Sunday, January 5, 2014

2014

Everyone is doing it!  Reading lists, Best music list, best movies, diets, goals for the new year!

The creation of a reading list for me has been quite easy, I got some amazing books for Christmas, and so the 2014 reading list was started with these books:
-The Bully Pulpit by Doris Kearns Goodwin, a historical look at the falling out of Presidents Theodore Roosevelt and William H Taft.
-Freaknomics by Steven Levitt and Steven Dunner . A book that Mike refers to quite often when he sees a problem un-sloved because of a lack of incentive.
-A short history of nearly everything by Bill Bryson. A book similar to "lies my teacher told me" that is more of a setting the record straight kind of book, from our elementary learnings to actual grown up explanations about science and history.
- The book thief by Markus Zusak. Which I will read and then proceed to watch the movie.
- Mother Teresa: A complete Authorized biography by Kathryn Spink. A present from my Sister-in-law and her husband.

I also accompanied Mike to go pick up his law books for this semester of school, while I was waiting for him to get his book, I wandered around the GW bookstore and these two books caught my eye.

- Homage to Catalonia, Down and Out in Paris and London by George Orwell. A short book that talks about the authors experience in Spain during the Spanish Civil war in 1936. I really enjoy reading about the spanish civil war, and I try and tell others about it as much as I can, I feel that it gets overshadowed by WWII, and so very few Americans ever hear about it.
-Eisenhower 1956: The Presidents Year of Crisis- Suez and the Brink of War. The title pretty much says it all, but Eisenhower is one of the presidents that I have a growing interest in due to reading the biography on J. Edgar Hoover.

The rest of my list is roll-overs from 2013, I either didn't find them at the library or they didn't seem as interesting at the time I needed a new book, or they have not been finished/published yet.

- The Way of Kings: Words Of Radiance by Brandon Sanderson
- Savage Inequalities: Children in America's Schools by Jonathan Kozol
- Great Expectations by Charles Dickens
- East of Eden by John Steinbeck
- Bolivar: American Liberator by Marie Arana
-The Indian Slave Trade: The Rise of the English Empire in the American South 1670-1717 by Alan Gallay
- A. Lincoln: A Biography by Ronals C White Jr.
- Henry Clay: The Essential American by David S Heidler

I was talking with my sister, and she mentioned that a lot of times, if she does not have a non-fiction book on her list to read, she feels like she should, and therefore never reads a fiction book, even if there is one that has caught her eye.

Reading is great no matter what you are reading, AND, if you need a good fiction book to read, I recommend The Mistborn series by Brandon Sanderson. They are a great fiction read.

So, what is on your list?

* All links lead to Amazon. Hope they are helpful.

Sunday, December 15, 2013

Tis' the season

kindness
we all say we have it; but as I work retail this holiday season i find that kindness is in short supply this time of year.
others of you who work in retail/customer service will probably second this.

What is it about this time of year that makes it harder for people to be kind?


Friday, December 13, 2013

J Edgar Hoover

This last month I read "J. Edgar Hoover" by Curt Gentry.

I saw it while we were visiting the Library of Congress back in Sept/Oct. There were several presidential books, and biographies. I used my Goodreads App bar code scanner to quickly file books that looked interesting. I just happened to scan this book. Its a great read!

I recently discovered that I do enjoy reading biographies. Once I realized this, I stopped and thought, back in high school I read a biography on General George McClelland, and I remember really liking it and going through it really quickly. Had I realized this back when I was in college I probably would have maybe majored in History, or taken more History classes.

A while back I also read "American Lion" a biography on Andrew Jackson we picked up on our way to DC  from Joplin when we stopped in Tennessee. We got it at the gift shop at The Hermitage, thought we couldn't bring ourselves to spend the money to take the tour of the actual house, nor did we have the three hours it takes to tour it.

So, back to the book. J Edgar Hoover lived from 1895-1972. So he is an adult during a time in history when everything is changing, and not only does he live during these years, but he has a very important job, with lots of political leverage. During his time at the FBI he sees 10 presidents come and go, and serves directly under 8 of them as director. The amount of history that he lives, and creates is honestly astounding. More importantly, the amount of corruption not only in the FBI but across all branches of government at the time is a real eye opener. There are things that the author talks about, that when you can wrap your head around the fact that they really happened, just blow your mind again. It brings into perspective our political world today.

As I was reading it, the new about NSA spying on Americans and also foreigners broke. For once, I was actually so unsurprised by this because, well, its nothing new. Really! To get all the details you will have to read the book!

One of the things I also like about these two biographies is that a bulk of the persons life is lived here in Washington DC. The places mentioned in the book are places I have rode my bike to, sat and read in, and driven by as I take Mike to Law School on rainy or snowy days.

I now am having a hard time deciding what my next biography should be. A couple of contenders are:
- Simon Bolivar
- Nelson Mandela
- Ernesto "Che" Guevara
- Abraham Lincoln
- Benito Juarez
- Thomas Jefferson

Note that Bolivar and Lincoln I have already picked out books for. The rest I have not had a recommendation for a certain book. A Mandela bio is a new one on my list.
Do you have any recommendations on my other want to read? if so, please let me know in the comments.





Getting ready for Christmas

I enjoy Christmas,
growing up I enjoyed Christmas because it was a family centered time, with great food, and lots of presents. We never had snow or even cold temperatures in Mexico, in fact, one Christmas I remember having to scavenger hunt a gift and we went outside and I was too warm in my sweatshirt and jeans.
My family lived in the US only one year of my childhood, it was my 7th grade school year. That was the first year that we actually experienced snow with our Christmas season. There is something about the snow that makes Christmas just a little more special, the coldness driving people inside and so more time is spent together. Also, though I complain about it, the shorter days, make Christmas lights a bigger show piece.
Everyone has certain things that make December actually turn into Christmas. Its the traditions that we do that make this time of the year special. For me growing up it was:
- Decorating sugar cookies, ever since we were little its something we have always done, and not just a few, my mom and grandma would bake dozens of them that we would then have to decorate, it would take several hours, and cover more than one table.
- Pie. Thanksgiving and Christmas was the ONLY time we ever had pie, pumpkin pie. This year I have made 4 pies, and I have plans to make one more before Christmas. And then at least one more for Christmas dinner.
- Decorating. When we were little my mom would decorate, once we were bigger, us girls did more of it. We would take down all of our regular wall hangings and put up Christmas themed decor. The Christmas tree would be covered in ornaments and lights. I liked trying something new each year.
- Watching mom and dad "drain" the turkey all day on Christmas to get the juices for the gravy. It was a mixture of english and spanish, some concern about it being hot or missing the receiving container, and always a bit stressful it seemed. They now have it down pat, a twice a year routine that they do flawlessly.
- Opening presents. It was always a nice and orderly affair. Everyone opening presents in turn and everyone else watching. My younger sister used to be the present distributer, and last year it was Ela, my niece, that took over that honor.
- Stocking presents. There were three girls in the family. On Christmas morning, we would wake up, get our stockings, dump all the presents on the bed, then proceed to open them according to what they were. Each year we were pretty much guaranteed to get a new tooth brush, chap stick,or a small perfume. They were all the same, and so we would say "lets open the big square one" or "lets open the tooth brush".

As a grown up there are things that I now do, that I have added to the list.
- Present shopping. I enjoy trying to think of a lovely gift for each person. Something that they need, or that I think they would like. Its a challenge, a fun challenge. Since I work now I actually have a little to spend on people, when we were kids, there was a lot of gift making to compensate for our lack of funds.
- The snow, the last Christmas I had in Mexico was in 2003, ten years ago. Since then we have celebrated this season in the US. So along with Christmas there is cold, ice, and snow.
- Time with family. There have been a few Christmases we have not all been together. One year Erica and family were in Tennessee, and Amanda was in Illinois. It was just my parents, grandmother and I that year. The Christmases since my grandmother has passed have also felt a bit incomplete. After these things, all of the Calderon's being together has been a lot more special.

These are the things that make December into Christmas for me.